OK, before we get into the really good stuff let’s just talk about the elephant in the room and lay out the BAD parts of online dating and some of the PREJUDICES about online dating that are holding you back.
Here’s Why Online Dating Totally Sucks And You Should Give Up Right Now (OK, not really)…
- Guys online are “only interested in sex” and don’t want a ‘real realationship’
- Scammers from Nigeria use online dating to prey on sweet, unsuspecting women and steal their money.
- Guys LIE on their online dating profile. You think you’re getting Chris Hemsworth (the guy who plays Thor) and you end up with Tom Cruise’s shorter, uglier, crazier brother.
- Dick pics. (Oh, the cucumbers.)
- Nauseous feeling of rejection and lack of self worth when nobody writes you online or when you write a really cute guy and he doesn’t write you back. (WHY DON’T YOU WANT ME????)
- “Crazy” guys asking you to marry them before you even meet them (usually in badly broken English.)
- Getting stuck in “email hell” with guys who refuse to ever meet up in person.
- Meeting a “great guy” and totally falling for him only to find out he’s already married.
- Online dating gives you a totally unfiltered view of humanity in all it’s glory and all it’s horror.
So, if online dating is REALLY that bad why should any hot, sexy, self-respecting woman do it?
Online dating is awesome because…
You don’t have to put on a tight black dress, get blackout drunk and hope to meet a rich astrophysicist at “Cowgirls, Inc.”
You can set up a profile to be your “Man Magnet” and get guys to approach you while still having time for your actual life.
Great men are often “shy” men who are scared @$#(less to actually walk up to a woman in the REAL world to ask you out. (That menas you actually get asked out on dates via online dating.)
You get a way wider “selection” of men to choose from.
And of course the number 1 reason: Online dating actually works.
Here’s a Few Stats…
- 75% of American singles have tried online dating
- 17% of couples who got married in 2012 reported that they met online (and a bunch of other folks lied about it and pretended they met at some hippie music festival or at a bar.)
Now, I know…
You’ve TRIED online dating before and felt like your heart and your ego got fed through a wheat thresher.
But during this program we’re not just going to transform your online profile and the way you go about meeting guys online.
We’re also going to transform you and give you the self esteem and the emotional toughness that will actually make online dating fun and make it easy to meet guys who are actually worth your time (and could even be the love of your life.)
So Right now…
Make a promise to yourself to give this a fair shot and to actually do what I tell you to do. (I can’t help you unless you help yourself and unless you give yourself a fair shot.)
Go watch “The Online Dating Mindset” video. (I promise it’s not to woo woo.)
