The 5 Kinds of Guys Who Use Online Dating

5 Kinds of Guys PDF

What you’re going to learn in this lesson (and why it’s important)

Remember when I said that to be successful you would have to learn to love men for who they REALLY are? That’s what this lesson is about. 

First I’m going to lay out the 5 different types of men you’re going to meet online…

THEN I’m going to teach you the different types of online dating profiles that automatically attract each kind of guy.

Type One: The Sex Shopper

1. Pictures of his cucumber before he even says hello.
2. “U R Hot I want to Makes Loves To You.”
3. Looks at your pictures and barely glances at your profile.
4. Shirtless pictures of him with his guitar on his profile.
5. Lives in a fantasy world where women are as horny and indiscriminate as he is.

Why does the Sex Shopper act like this when he’d never do so in real life?

Because to the sex shopper, online dating is a VIDEO GAME.

He figures if he sends out enough messages EVENTUALLY he’ll get a hit (and he wil. From a transvestite.)

Not all sex shoppers are creeps and weirdos…OK, they are, but some of them are actually decent guys who just haven’t been socialized yet.

Older sex shoppers are often getting out of sexless relationship and just don’t know any better. (Not an excuse, mind you.)

Type Two: The Commitment Addict

• Thinks you’re his “Girlfriend” just because you responded to his message online.
• Often has “poetic” and “emotional” profiles.
• Comes on as strong as a category 5 Sharknado.
• Commitment Addicts are often emotional (or even physical) abusers, are extremely jealous and should be avoided both online and in life in general.

Type Three: SCAMMERS

• There are people who’s entire job is to scam folks on online dating sites out of money.
• They do this by presenting as THE PERFECT MAN and fulfilling your emotional needs. (This is why going into online dating in a “needy” emotional state is so dangerous.)
• Guys get scammed too (in a different way.)

Type 4: Nice Guys/ “Really Good Guys”

• The vast majority of men out there are shy, have incredible approach anxiety and are scared of women in one way or another.
• Shy guys are often great guys (with jobs) but don’t have game or confidence.
• They use online dating because it allows them to talk to girls without having to TALK TO GIRLS.
• Shy guys are often FRUSTRATED and even a little ANGRY.

Type 5: The Alpha Male

• Has plenty of confidence, takes up space in a room, has “an effect” on women.
• Usually dates multiple women at once (because he can.)
• Charming (because he has practice.)
• Has a job/owns a business/feels powerful in his everyday life.
• Incredibly attractive but also incredibly frustrating to women.

Question I Get All The Time: “Why are all the guys online just interested in sex? Aren’t there any guys out there who actually want a relationship?”

You’re asking the wrong question. Let’s jsut lay out why each of our five types of guys are actually online in the first place.

Sex Shopper:

1. Sex.
2. Sex.
3. Sex.

Commitment Addict:

1. Ego Gratification.
2. Control.
3. Sex.

Scammer:

1. Money.
2. Money.
3. Money.

Nice Guys:

1. Sex.
2. “Get a girlfriend.”
3. Companionship.

Alpha Male

1. Sex.
2. Ego.
3. Vague ideas about “the future.”

Notice what’s on EVERY list (except the Scammer)?

ALL guys want sex. (If he doesn’t want sex it’s a problem – he’s either a scammer or he’s gay or something else weird is going on.)

Even great guys who are awesome relationship material are spending 85% of their waking hours thinking about sex.

Why Do Guys Think About Sex All The Time?

Why is the sky blue?

Because either God or nature made us this way. (And because if men didn’t think about sex all the time there’d be a lot fewer people on the planet.)

Ranting and raving about how men “shouldn’t be that way” is about as useful as wishing money grew on trees. (Not very useful.)