Different “Bait” For Different “Bears”:What Kind Of Profile Attracts
Each Type Of Online Guy . . .
Sex Shoppers (And every guy is a sex-shopper sometimes)…
- Respond almost 100% to pictures. If you have “Slutty” (or even just too-revealing) photos on your profile you’ll get these kinds of guys
- A tale of two profiles (a woman and her busty sister.)
- Bikini shots, high-angle-down-the-cleavage shots etc.
- Any kind of mention of sex in your profile will get a ton of these guys.
- Often playing the “numbers game” online and sending the same messages out again and again.
Commitment Addicts/Scammers
- Low self esteem.
- Neediness.
- “Princess seeks her prince.”
- Photos that show lack of confidence.
- “Caretakers”
- “Negative” profiles that talk about “never being loved” or “why aren’t there any good men out there/“
- Photos of cats. (seriously.)
Nice Guys/Shy Guys
- Sexy pictures—if the pics are too sexy even nice guys can become sex shoppers. Sexy photos make guys think only of sex.
- Ultimate: “The pretty geek.”
- “Interest” based photos and profiles.
- Passion (as opposed to slutiness.)
Alpha Males (at least the good ones.)
- Confidence
- Having a “mission” of your own.
- A challenge.
- Attractive but not slutty.
- Lack of neediness. (Neediness is the opposite of attraction.)
Next: Go listen to the “Man’s eye view” interview where me and my friend Nick let you be a “Fly on the wall” as we discuss what different women’s online profiles actually say to us.
THEN do the “Paint The Target On The Wall” worksheet where you get clear on what you’re actually looking for and why you’re going online.
